WAYS TO COPE AFTER A TRAUMA
There is no one right way to cope. Each person has unique strengths and vulnerabilities.
DO:
Relax and rest
Eat nutritiously
Exercise
Get more than enough sleep
Talk about what happened
Write about what happened (journaling, letters, e-mails)
Laugh when you can
Set small goals
Keep some sort of routine
If safe, stay in familiar environment
Spend time with those who are supportive and helpful
Cry if you can
Pray
Sing or listen to music
Educate yourself about traumatic reactions
Anticipate difficult times to come
Search and find perspective and meaning in the event
Ask for help
DON’T:
Make major decisions
Set up an active travel or speaking schedule
Drink alcohol
Drink caffeinated drinks
Take sedating drugs (i.e., valium, sleeping pills)
Talk publicly about sensitive details soon after trauma
Make broad generalizations about yourself, future, others